To Ladies
First, you have to start with yourself. Try find out that which u are not doing fine or right. Try find out what attracts other women to him.
The truth is that when a woman gets married, she regards herself Lord over the husband. That is not right.
We forget to do things even more than how we do them as singles. Some of us tie just a particular wrapper for weeks unwashed because we are always at home. We keep our hairs unkempt. We start gaining fat and adding so much weight without doing anything about it. It's totally wrong.
We should keep up with that which attracted our husband's to us and not just feel so relaxed simply because we are married.
Most of us like blaming others while our problems are from and with us.
Make your husband know that the food at home is worth more than that he goes for outside.
Marriage is work and sustaining it is extra work.
Secondly, We do not only need to be fast at identifying our husband's mistresses / side chicks and confronting them.
We should learn from them by trying to find out what they do that we, the wives, don't do well. Is it the sex?
Is it the make up?
Is it our outfits?
What?
Thirdly, never leave communication out of your marriage. No matter what he does, talk to him but not after and Immediately you see him return from wherever he may have come from. Serve him a good meal first. You know the best time to talk to your man no matter how vexed you are.
Even when he is mute and doesn't reply you, make your point clear. He is human and has conscience.
He will one day feel sorry if he is wrong or tell you reasons if you are behind it all.
Finally and most importantly, we need prayers to run and keep our homes. Go to God in prayers. We, women, have easy access to God because we pray more than our husbands most times. Channel all the energy and time used in complaining and confronting the side chicks to God in prayers.
LIVE RIGHT
LOVE RIGHT
MARRY RIGHT
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